Mekelle: 19 April 2024 (Tigray Herald)
Modern Kids Call for Matching Parents
A recent television program focusing on children’s interactions with adults sparked a dialogue about parenting techniques. As a parent myself, my goal is to nurture confidence and independence in my children, empowering them to think critically rather than simply conforming to societal norms.
Unlike previous generations, where children were encouraged to remain silent and submissive in the presence of elders, I believe in outspokenness and self-assurance. However, the line between confidence and arrogance is delicate. While it is essential for children to develop self-esteem, it should never excuse disrespectful behaviour without valid justification.
Children naturally tend to have a self-centred perspective, prioritising their desires and needs. It is through careful guidance in their upbringing, that they learn empathy, respect, and accountability for others. Unfortunately, certain parenting methods may inadvertently instil entitlement rather than respect.
Constantly indulging every whim and desire can create a sense of entitlement in children, leading them to believe that the world owes them something. This expectation can breed frustration when they encounter limitations beyond their immediate circle. Parents and caregivers need to strike a balance between nurturing self-esteem and instilling respect, while also encouraging meaningful interactions with others.
The modern emphasis on individualism in child-rearing has widened the generational gap, exacerbated by the pervasive influence of technology. Children immersed in the digital world lack essential social cues and communication skills for respectful interactions. This shift from face-to-face conversations to online diminishes opportunities for children to develop empathy and respect through real-world experiences.
Disregarding elders and authority figures can escalate conflicts and erode trust within communities, ultimately affecting social cohesion. To address this issue, a comprehensive effort involving parents and educators is essential. Parents play a critical role in shaping behaviour and attitudes, providing structure and clear expectations for their children while enforcing consequences for disrespectful behaviour.
Educators also have a major role in promoting respectful interactions among children, incorporating social and emotional learning programs into the school curriculum to develop essential skills such as communication and empathy. Encouraging collaborative projects can breed a sense of community among students.
Positive portrayals of intergenerational interactions in media and entertainment can influence attitudes, while community initiatives such as mentorship programs can facilitate connections between different age groups, promoting mutual understanding and respect across generations.
While it is important to nurture confidence in children, it is equally vital to instil respect for others. By striking a balance between self-esteem and respect, and promoting meaningful interactions across generations, we can raise children who are confident, empathetic, and respectful individuals. They may not fully comprehend the consequences of their actions or words, especially in their formative years.
As parents, we must guide them to express themselves confidently while also respecting the perspectives and experiences of others. We are responsible for teaching them to consider the impact of their words and actions on those around them. It is important to lead by example and model respectful behaviour. They learn through observation, and treating others with kindness and respect sets a powerful preceden.
Source፡Addis Fortune
